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Thursday, December 15, 2011

總有一段愛情,戀了,就不會愛了.....

我們一生不知道會談多少次戀愛。只是一定會有那麼一場,戀了、便再也不會愛了。



那場愛,叫真愛。



年少時,我們會因為一個人好看的笑,打球時一個華麗的轉身而怦然心動,青澀的一句“我喜歡你。”就會亂了心跳,面紅耳赤。一起上學、回家,直到有一天,美麗的午後,慵懶的陽光,害羞、試探地牽手,晚上便遲遲不能入睡。這便是“拉拉小手,高興半宿”的初戀。




後來,漸漸長大的我們,開始真正意義上的愛戀,我們會一起吃飯,一起牽手逛街,在夕陽拉長的影子,詮釋著我們接吻了,我們幸福著。可是隨著日子的流失,我們會膩煩彼此,開始因為接吻的心跳幸福感也蕩然無存。分手、一個人。



我 們慢慢步入20歲的行列。有一天,在命運的牽使下,你遇到一個一眼就讓你淪陷的男人,對!是“男人”,不是“男孩”。他有喉結、他有點痞卻不失穩重,很有 品位不失時尚,這就是夢中的男人。於是,你們開始了以為是“生死相依”的瓊瑤式愛情,不考慮明天,只要兩個人在一起就好,這個時候女孩就算陪男孩吃泡麵都 是幸福的,因為男子的一個電話、一條短信而興奮,會為了一個電話等到半夜,會因為沒等到短信,無法入眠。女孩收起自己所有任性,在他面前努力成為他想要的 樣子。只是這種愛情注定會分開。沒有理由,每段感情的結束都有它的理由,不管成不成立,總有那麼一個理由。



之後,女孩出人意料得擦乾眼淚,表面像是什麼也沒發生過,絕口不提。女孩又開始戀愛,只是她身邊的男子會經常變換,一段感情不會持續多久。女孩和他們努力接吻、擁抱。。。只是什麼感覺也不再有。靜下來一個人,還是會想到那個人。



原來、那個讓你不會愛了的感情叫真愛!



那天, 有個女孩跟我說“你有沒有發現,總有一段愛情,戀了,就不會愛了.....”

你是那個女孩嗎?

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

事实还是谎言?

你...要听事实,还是要听谎言?
事实,太残忍;谎言,要不得...

最近这一年多,我几乎是看尽了人情冷暖...
结了婚的
在外面还是乜花惹草
有了女朋友的
在外面还是电力四射,左拥右抱~
前一秒才在面子书上写“老婆,爱你”
下一秒你看到他在街上搂着其他女人...
这到底是一个怎样的世界?
一个不够吗?两个才能满足?
你有那么精力充沛吗?

男的也就算了,女的也这样?
可以周旋在男人间,来去自如,我佩服!
可是楚楚可怜,把自尊践踏在脚底下的我就“ 呸! ”
 做女人做到这样,未免也太失败了吧?

个案 1
结婚前六个月认识了新女友
现在老婆大着肚子,女友又放不下...
做老婆的,要事实,还是要谎言?

个案2
背着男友另结新欢
拥着新男友,对着前男友死缠烂打
前男友放不下,新男友不甘愿
三角关系纠缠不清,理还乱~

个案3
老婆刚生完孩子
老公在朋友的生日派对上寻找新的猎物
老婆要不要事实?

选一个,然后对他有起码的尊重,起码得忠诚,有那么难吗?
在对你的另一半做出伤害他的事情前,先想一想....
如果他像你对他那样对你,你会怎样?
爱,不难懂,也不容易理解...
要对自己的行为负责
对自己有起码的尊重!

Sunday, December 4, 2011

看开

“看开”两个字,说起来容易...可是做得到吗?

看得开,一切都会是甜美的回忆....
看得开,你就可以拥有你想要的...
看得开,这个世界才会是美好的...
看得开,你才能幸福...

看不开,他还不会是你的...
看不开,他还是那么的快乐...
看不开,他也不会记得你...
何必这样折磨你自己呢?

我们能做的只有这样了, pray for him =)


Do make him regret for what he had done, okay? =]

Saturday, November 26, 2011

无法预料的

很多事情都不是你能控制的
能控制的也不会是你想要的

生活里充满了无法预料的事情
预料不到会有小人在你背后狂捅你
预料不到会有人暗恋你
预料不到他就是你一直等的那个人
预料不到你们之间的友情会结束
预料不到那颗豆豆会长得那么大粒
预料不到....
怎样都预料不到...

无法预料的永远都多过你能控制的
学着接受, 学着体会,学着谅解
一切也不过是如此...

Saturday, October 29, 2011

Conclusion =)

This post is specially dedicated to SOMEONE, who used to be the one that I think "yes, he's the one", but somehow, turned out to be.....who knows~
Those who know me well, sure knew how he treated me....(not bad, but not as a girlfriend either)
Somehow, I managed to convince myself that that's just his style, nothing more, everything will change once we step into another phase....but pathetically, that's just a desperate girl asking for more comforts from herself....I should have known there's something wrong...
He met someone new, and fall for her, as quickly as how the thunder strikes...
Most of them think that the girl is the one who should be blamed, but I think I should thank her....
As she's the one who let me know that HE's simply a JERK :)
He didn't really bring me out with his friends and never wanna spend more time with me...
However, I managed to stuck with him for more than 2 years...stupid, right?
Well, what can I say is that "Babe, I'm not the one losing, you are." :)
I should be glad that I didn't step into another phase with him, right? :P
Lots of my friend said that THEY wont last long, somehow, that proves to be true...2 months?
Anyway, that's non of my business and I don't care....
Together so what? Break so what? Nothing to deal with me....
My friends laughed (loudly and happily) when they knew that THEY break....
But somehow.....I don't really have any feeling....(neither happy, nor sad, just....so what?)
Since then, I realized that once you gave up on someone, or you let go of something, fully, it's easy, simply easy....to make a decision, cause no more hard feelings...
And now, he starts blogging....having his sad feelings and now, a new relationship~ (congratz)
And still, I didn't feel anything about that.....(I'm glad, cause this proves that I had fully, let it go...)
I'm not going to forget him, cause he's the one who hurt me so badly and forced me to stand up by my own.
He's the one who make me to force myself to GROW UP. And yes, thanks to him, I did it!

Blogging this doesn't mean that I still care about him, I just simply wanna share my feelings and make a conclusion out of my previous relationship.

This will be the last and only post that I'm gonna mention about HIM. May God bless HIM.
AMEN :)

Friday, October 28, 2011

the SigN that symbolizes me

I went to KL around end of June this year
Just to do something that I've always wanted to do!
And yes, I did it!
I wish to show the world but I can't!
I had to hide!
That's sad, but still, I'm happy!
And I'm glad that I did it~
Few of my good friends and my boi should know what I'm talking about =)
That's gonna be my SECRET
the SigN that symbolizes me

Monday, October 24, 2011

友情的味道

今天做的这个决定,不懂会不会令我后悔....
不过这样下去也不是办法
我只好这样...
我放手了!
这样应该是最好的
为了他好,也为了我好

和他的这一段友情,不长...
半年?算一算,应该不到~
不过我很庆幸能遇到他
他决定了我身体上一个永远都会存在的特征
他让我品尝到友情的味道
也同时让我了解到友情的脆弱...

如果你问我,还有可能回到以前吗?
答案是否定的...
不过,他会是一个永远都存在的回忆...
一个美好的回忆....

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Shooting :P

A good friend of mine planned to participate in a short video clip contest organized by BMW Shorties
www.bmwshorties.com.my
Suprisingly, she decided to have me as the main character
A big me! Of course, the main point is I look like 30 >.<
Anyway, I could not get a valid excuse to say NO =)
So, I've been busy shooting these few days~
Tiring, but happy!
Don't really care how big I'll look like in that short clip, just meant to lend her a hand :-)


The poster for the video clip, I kinda like it~

你不懂的她

曾经何时,写部落格是我的一切....
不过,在一些事情的发生后,我决定舍弃那个记录着我两年多生活的它...
值得吗?
我不懂....我只是不想看回去那一段过去...
甜蜜的也好,伤心的也好,都过去了!
如今,我是一个你不懂的她~
因为连我自己也不懂,现在的我.... =)